The Living Church Part 2: The Bride


The church is so much more than four walls and a roof!

The book of Revelation pictures the church as the Bride of Jesus Christ (Rev 19:7-8). So if you are a Christian you need to know you’re engaged. When you’re engaged life is different. You are focused on and preparing for the big day. As a pastor I do a lot of pre-marital counseling and one of the very first questions I love to ask a bride-to-be is how many days until the wedding. Inevitably each one of them blurts out the answer without hesitation. If we are engaged to Jesus Christ we should be preparing for the big day too, His return.

In the time the New Testament was written marriages were a little different. Back then a marriage had three important parts the promise, the preparation and the party. The promise involved making  the right connection between the groom and the Father of the bride. When a deal was struck the marriage was considered official, although the couple did not let live together. During the preparation the groom would go off and in many cases actually build the house or apartment in which he and his bride would live. Often this took upwards of a year. Last came the party. When all the work was done the groom would come for his bride and take her to her new home where they would be husband and wife. All this was celebrated by a party!

For Christians, the cross was the promise. There Jesus secured the engagement by making all the arrangements for our sin. The party is coming when he returns for us. This means that right now we are in the preparation phase. Jesus himself even said so: “Let not your heart be troubled; believe in God, believe also in Me.  “In My Father’s house are many dwelling places; if it were not so, I would have told you; for I go to prepare a place for you.  “And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also. (John 14:1-3)”.

So are you ready for His return? When the book of Revelation tells us the church is the bride it also reveals how we can be ready; by being clothed in righteousness. And dressing correctly is important, just ask any young woman who is engaged…she is on the hunt for the perfect wedding dress. While not all of us are meant to wear dresses, we are called to wear something appropriate for Christ’s returns. We are properly attired when we live and act in a righteous manner. When we live out the commands of Jesus. When we seek justice, love mercy, offer forgiveness and grace and live in peace.

Are you wearing your best? Are you living like your engaged?

Community Questions:

Why do you suppose Jesus choose to use a marriage metaphor for his church?

What are some ways you are wearing righteousness?

How “TWEET” it is to be loved by you


Who knew that 85 yeas later Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher would be contending for the title: “World’s Longest Married Couple”? But that is exactly the case. Yesterday this couple (102 and 104 respectively) decided to give aged advice via a modern method. These two love birds tweeted (yes I do mean twitter) 14 bits of relationship advice to some 2,100 followers on Twitter. They received hundreds of questions from the followers and answered the top 14 here they are:

Question 1: What made you realize that you could spend the rest of your lives together? Were you scared at all?

Answer: With each day that passed, our relationship was more solid and secure.Divorce was NEVER an option – or even a thought.

Question 2: How did you know your spouse was the right one for you?

Answer: We grew up together & were best friends before we married. A friend is for life – our marriage has lasted a lifetime.

Question 3: Is there anything you would do differently after more than 80 years of marriage?

Answer: We wouldn’t change a ting. There’s no secret to our marriage, we just did what was needed for each other & our family.

Question 4: What is your advice to someone who is trying to keep the faith that Mr. Right is really out there?

Answer: Zlemyra: Mine was just around the corner! He is never too far away, so keep the faith – when you meet him, you’ll know.

Question 5: What was the best piece of marriage advice you ever received?

Answer: Respect, support & communicate with each other. Be faithful, honest & true. Love each other with ALL of your heart.

Question 6: What are the most important attributes of a good spouse?

Answer: A hard worker & a good provider. The 1920s were hard, but Herbert wanted & provided the best for us. I married a good man!

Question 7: What is your best Valentine’s Day memory?

Answer: Z I cook dinner EVERY day. Herbert left work early & surprised me – he cooked dinner for me! He is a VERY good cook! H: I said that I was going to cook dinner for her & she could relax – the look on her face & clean plate made my day!

Question 8: You got married very young – how did u both manage to grow as individuals yet not grow apart as a couple?

Answer: Everyone who plants a seed & harvests the crop celebrates together” We are individuals, but accomplish more together.

Question 9: What is your fondest memory of your 85 years of marriage?

Answer: Our legacy: 5 children, 10 grandchildren, 9 great-grandchildren, and one great-great grandchild.

Question 10: Does communicating get easier with time? How do you keep your patience?

Answer: The children are grown, so we talk more now. We can enjoy our time on the porch or our rocking chairs – together.

Question 11: How did you cope when you had to be physically separated for long periods of time?

Answer: We were apart for 2 months when Z was hospitalized with our 5th child. It was the most difficult time of my life Zelmyra’s mother helped me with the house and the other children, otherwise I would have lost my mind.

Question 12: At the end of bad relationship day, what is the most important thing to remind yourselves?

Answer: Remember marriage is not a contest – never keep a score. God has put the two of you together on the same team to win

Question 13: Is fighting important?

Answer: NEVER physically! Agree that it’s okay to disagree, & fight for what really matters. Learn to bend – not break.

Question 14: What’s the one thing you have in common that transcends everything else?

Answer: We are both Christians & believe in God.Marriage is a commitment to the Lord.We pray with & for each other every day

Here’s to love!